[좋은생각 좋은글] 내가 당신을 사랑하는 이유 - 김은미

 

내가 당신을 사랑하는 이유

내가 당신을 사랑하는 이유는

당신을 생각만 해도

기분이 좋아지기 때문입니다

아무리 힘든 일이 생겨도

당신만 생각하면 저절로 힘이 생겨나

이겨낼 수 있기 때문입니다

내가 당신을 사랑하는 이유는

언제나 따뜻함으로

날 맞아주기 때문입니다

상처로 얼룩진 마음으로 다가가도

당신의 따뜻함으로 기다렸다는 듯

감싸주기 때문입니다

내가 당신을 사랑하는 이유는

당신은 내가 그리워하는 것들을

모두 갖고 있기 때문입니다

넓게 펼쳐진 바다도,

아름다운 노래도,

가슴을 울리는 시도

당신의 가슴 속에 가득

채워져 있기 때문입니다

내가 당신을  사랑하는 이유는

아무런 이유가 없습니다

어떤 이유를 붙여도

당신을 사랑하는 진정한 의미를

다 표현해 낼 수 없기 때문입니다

- 김은미, 내가 당신을 사랑하는 이유 中

7 Wisdoms to Protect Your Precious Person

 

1. Respect him as a person
No matter who the other person is, he or she must respect him or her as his or her own personality to open his or her heart.
Even a newborn feels that he is respected.

2. Put yourself in his shoes
Before I deliver my heart to anything, I have to think about how that person will accept it.
Then you can match what the person wants with what I want to give.

3. Continue to love and care
Temporary attention gives a greater sense of loss than indifference. If you respect and care once or twice and give up or lose interest because you can't stand it, it will only leave a scar.

4. Be grateful for the person's existence itself
My life can be richer not because he did or became something for me, but just because he exists by my side. Therefore, be grateful for its existence

5. Observe the person inside out
You can know as much as you see, like as much as you know, and be considerate as much as you like.
Practice observation by looking at the behavior of people close to you and listening to the story.

6. Be happy first
How can you be genuinely interested and considerate of others when you are hurt by someone. Only happy people can convey happiness to others

7. Encourage the person's life
Don't stop complimenting. Encouragement is the only force that causes a person when he or she is in failure, frustration, and disappointment when he or she is sick and sick when he or she is nervous and anxious due to conflict.
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- Among the good comments

Oprah Winfrey's Life Advice

 

1. Don't try to be liked by others.

If you try to win the favor of others, you neglect yourself.

Then, you keep becoming conscious of others and becoming conscious of others.
You should be recognized by yourself and know how to love yourself, not a life to look good to others.

2. Don't rely on external things to move forward.
External glamour is external.
If it isn't made from within, it will eventually disappear.
If you rely on external things, you will try to embellish yourself rather than see your pure heart.
Only those who are faithful inside naturally glow outward.
What successful people have in common is not external decoration, but internal beauty and splendor.

3. Try to harmonize work and life as much as possible.
You can't live your whole life working. The value of our lives is happiness, not work.
To complete the marathon of life, you need proper rest and relaxation.
Otherwise, you will become addicted to work and may end up quitting your job by contracting modern diseases.

4. Stay away from people gossiping around you.
Negative people contain negative energy.
People who are good at gossip see everyone negatively.
Such a person should stay away from them as much as possible because they pollute the surroundings.
Because people become alike at some point.

5. Be true to others.
Pretentious behavior or words do not feel sincere after all.
Nothing is more important than truth in meeting people.
You shouldn't date people out of a moment's greed.
Only the truth can make a life that is honest, confident, and always confident from me.
To do so, you will have to be true to yourself first.

6. Cut off the addicted ones.
Addiction slowly sickens the mind.
Addiction, such as alcohol and alcohol, also weakens the human mind.
Human addiction also leads to a strong obsession with people. So is drugs.
All of these phenomena of addiction have the power to slowly weaken a person and eventually impoverish life itself.

7. Fill your surroundings with people comparable to you or better than you.
Good people give good energy.
The more I have a mentor who can give me advice and directions in my life, the better.
We are not perfect, so if we sincerely listen to their advice and implement it, we can reduce a lot of trial and error.

8. Forget about money at all unless you're doing it for money.
You shouldn't expect a price when you do your service.
Don't sacrifice and hope for a price.
If I'm not for any loan or money, I should just have the heart to give it.
This is because if you think of money in that mind, even your pure intentions will disappear.

9. Do not hand over your authority to others.
The owner of our lives is me.
When I become irresponsible and evasive about myself, others make choices about me.
This irresponsibility makes human life depressing and lethargic.
If there's anything I have to decide right now, I have to decide right away.
If there is something to be solved, it should be solved right away. Our lives are a series of choices.
I shouldn't let people choose me.

10. Don't give up.
Abandonment creates another barrier.
Giving up is also a habit, so you keep running away.
Our lives gain experience and experience through challenges.
The moment you give up, you will not learn the valuable true lesson of life.
You will have to build your life with a challenge rather than a mind to give up.